I have made it my job over the past 15 years to make sure you had a great relationship with your kids. I have included you in every major decision I have made. Not just for them, but for myself, in an effort to make sure you were aware, informed, and often made you a part of the process.
The fact that you have completely disowned me and the 15 years I have spent caring for and raising our children-essentially single handedly… on (date) when you kidnapped (name) and
(name) from my home, you ripped them not just from my home but from my heart, with the ongoing intention of them never again to be as close to me as they were at that time.
You have taught them that this behavior is ok, when you instructed them to turn off their phones and not tell me where they were or where they were going. You taught them that they do not have to respect me- that I don’t matter- that they can shirk any responsibility to themselves or to me.
You taught them that words and communication are unnecessary, that
running away is the answer- and that there are no real consequences to their actions, because there are none to yours.
I blame you for the way they treat me today.
Your hateful heart has never healed and when we split the only way you knew how to contend with that is by driving this stake into my heart, because you know they are the only thing that mattered to me.
We signed 3 parenting agreements over 15 years- each one demanded that we foster a good relationship between the children and the other parent. You have violated this time and time again in the last 18 months in ways I could have never predicted. You are an evil, vile motherfucking piece of shit- and I am sad that my children have you as an example of a father.
There will come a day that they realize what you did, and you will suffer those consequences. The world will give you back the pain you have bestowed upon me, and you will deserve every bit of it.
- Anonymous
